reflexive pronouns

Level Six

Lesson 65

A reflexive pronoun refers to the subject of a sentence. The subject of the sentence interacts with itself.   

  • I cut myself
  • He cooks for himself
  • The students figured out the problem themselves
  • She’s sitting by herself
  • The machine turns itself on in the morning and off at night. 

Take Quiz #65 – reflexive pronouns when you are finished with this lesson. 

smiling boy holding on rope

She does most of the work around the house herself. 

She’s very proud of herself! 

65a. subject -- reflexive pronoun

A reflexive pronoun always refers back to the subject. 

subject — pronoun

(singular) 

I — myself

you — yourself

he — himself

she — herself 

it — itself 

 

subject — pronoun

(plural) 

we — ourselves 

you — yourselves 

they — themselves

Notice the connection that is made between the reflexive pronoun and the subject:

  • I hurt myself.  
  • You need to take better care of yourself. 
  • He should be ashamed of himself. 
  • She was proud of herself for a job well-done. 
  • Some people try to educate themselves through YouTube. 
  • We must help ourselves. 

65a. subject -- reflexive pronoun

65b. by + reflexive pronoun

When the preposition “by” appears before a reflexive pronoun, it emphasizes the experience of doing something solo or being alone. 

  • She is sitting by herself. (No one else is there.) 
  • The little boy walked to school by himself. (No one was with him.) 
  • We completed the work by ourselves. (No one helped us.) 
  • I was able to figure out the problem by myself. (I did all the thinking.) 
  • There’s a cow in the field all by itself. (There are any other cows there. 

65b. subject -- reflexive pronoun

smiling boy holding on rope
  • She did her family’s laundry all by herself. 
A lone hiker silhouetted against a vibrant mountain sunrise.
  • He’s by himself.

65c. for + reflexive pronoun

When the preposition “for” is used before a reflexive pronoun, it identifies the subject as the main beneficiary of an action. 

  • I want to do this for myself. 
  • You need to learn to do this for yourself. 
  • He kept the money for himself. 
  • She has set some big goals for herself. 
  • We are hoping to find a nice vacation place for ourselves. 
  • People who have a hard time finding a good job with a company may ultimately decide to just work for themselves. 

65c. for + reflexive pronoun

A man smiling while working at an office desk with a computer and natural daylight streaming in through large windows.
  • He works for himself. (He has his own business and relies on himself for an income.) 
people and security on the road
  • Protestors who stand up for themselves are often confronted by the police. 

65d. intensive pronoun

An intensive pronoun is similar to a reflexive pronoun as they both refer back to the subject, but the purpose of an intensive pronouns is different. It emphasizes or increases the importance of the subject. 

  • Barack Obama himself will appear at the event. (This emphasizes the importance of the subject.) 
  • I myself will be there. / I will be there myself. (Shades of meaning differ slightly with the placement of the intensive pronoun. Both versions emphasize the subject.) 
  • She did it herself. / She herself did it. 
  • The boss said that he would take care of this situation himself. 
  • We ourselves are to blame for the impact human beings are having on the planet. 

65d. intensive pronoun

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  • The teacher manages the school himself. 
  • He himself takes care of what has to be done to operate the school. 
two women in suits standing beside wall
  • These two women organized their business themselves.