reflexive pronouns

Level Six

Lesson 65

A reflexive pronoun refers to the subject of a sentence. The subject of the sentence interacts with itself.   

  • I cut myself
  • He cooks for himself
  • The students figured out the problem themselves
  • She’s sitting by herself
  • The machine turns itself on in the morning and off at night. 

Take Quiz #65 – reflexive pronouns when you are finished with this lesson. 

girl outside hanging clothes

She does most of the work around the house herself. 

She’s very proud of herself! 

65a. subject -- reflexive pronoun

A reflexive pronoun always refers back to the subject. 

subject — pronoun

(singular) 

I — myself

you — yourself

he — himself

she — herself 

it — itself 

 

subject — pronoun

(plural) 

we — ourselves 

you — yourselves 

they — themselves

Notice the connection that is made between the reflexive pronoun and the subject:

  • I hurt myself.  
  • You need to take better care of yourself. 
  • He should be ashamed of himself. 
  • She was proud of herself for a job well-done. 
  • Some people try to educate themselves through YouTube. 
  • We must help ourselves. 

65a. subject -- reflexive pronoun

65b. by + reflexive pronoun

When the preposition “by” appears before a reflexive pronoun, it emphasizes the experience of doing something solo or being alone. 

  • She is sitting by herself. (No one else is there.) 
  • The little boy walked to school by himself. (No one was with him.) 
  • We completed the work by ourselves. (No one helped us.) 
  • I was able to figure out the problem by myself. (I did all the thinking.) 
  • There’s a cow in the field all by itself. (There are any other cows there. 

65b. subject -- reflexive pronoun

girl outside hanging clothes
  • She did her family’s laundry all by herself. 
A lone hiker silhouetted against a vibrant mountain sunrise.
  • He’s by himself.

65c. for + reflexive pronoun

When the preposition “for” is used before a reflexive pronoun, it identifies the subject as the main beneficiary of an action. 

  • I want to do this for myself. 
  • You need to learn to do this for yourself. 
  • He kept the money for himself. 
  • She has set some big goals for herself. 
  • We are hoping to find a nice vacation place for ourselves. 
  • People who have a hard time finding a good job with a company may ultimately decide to just work for themselves. 

65c. for + reflexive pronoun

A man smiling while working at an office desk with a computer and natural daylight streaming in through large windows.
  • He works for himself. (He has his own business and relies on himself for an income.) 
people and security on the road
  • Protestors who stand up for themselves are often confronted by the police. 

65d. intensive pronoun

An intensive pronoun is similar to a reflexive pronoun as they both refer back to the subject, but the purpose of an intensive pronouns is different. It emphasizes or increases the importance of the subject. 

  • Barack Obama himself will appear at the event. (This emphasizes the importance of the subject.) 
  • I myself will be there. / I will be there myself. (Shades of meaning differ slightly with the placement of the intensive pronoun. Both versions emphasize the subject.) 
  • She did it herself. / She herself did it. 
  • The boss said that he would take care of this situation himself. 
  • We ourselves are to blame for the impact human beings are having on the planet. 

65d. intensive pronoun

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  • The teacher manages the school himself. 
  • He himself takes care of what has to be done to operate the school. 
two women in suits standing beside wall
  • These two women organized their business themselves.